Fathers tend to develop special protective instinct for her Baby

Rare, really rare, together rushes it so right with one of the parents. And so right. Yes, sometimes the chemistry is simply not true. If all goes well, then it works even with both, so also with the man of the woman. In this case, it was not so. Not really.

For us, the midwives, the man is an important Partner, especially during the birth. If we can be in the delivery room between the pairs of back – and Lord, he can take the Massage, or his partner with the right Breathing support. In the house, it often occurs to me as if the men wanted to protect your cave visit, however, not always because I will receive friendly and open. Grumpy men forgiven, then, in your office or in the kitchen.

At a dinner, a young father of the midwife who helped with the birth of his children, told me the other day. You have him patronized and every limit exceeded. Probably because the chemistry has not voted. What he wanted me to say more I learned, because I sent drew the conversation to his charming twins. But by his anecdote I thought back to the noise with parents, which is also happened to me. Sure, every colleague has to tell the one or the other story.

The boy’s father, from my history I knew before I visited the Couple for the first Time. I had to remove on this day, in the newborn’s blood. Now, this is my favorite not just a task. Painless is easy to make and often both, Baby and mom crying. I heat the small, usually cold feet of the baby with a warm foot bath to. It helps that the Blood test is done easier and I don’t need to stab several times. The Stinging is for me to Overcome, and it brings me every Time into a sweat.

The preparations for the blood sampling were completed and it was ready to go. The child was the mother’s breast and started to cry. I remained calm and smiled at the woman, to calm you. At this Moment the father came in the room. What he saw was his insecure wife, a Baby crying, and blood. In summary, a pretty terrifying Situation for the man who had just come home.

He remained in the doorway and looked at me. If looks could kill, I would have been dead. Dead as a doornail. Slowly but determinedly and resolutely, he came up to me. I was very queasy. He grabbed my Arm, looked me in the eyes and said very loud and very clear: “please Leave my apartment! Immediately!“

I was accompanied in the hallway, I was handed the jacket and bag, and with emphasis, I was pushed out of the apartment. Whoosh. Door-to -. I breathed for the first time. The Blood loss would have still gotten to the lab.

I thought of the woman. Bad Situation for you, as you sat there safe now crying on the Sofa. Stumped on how I should deal with the Situation, LOX ambled off, followed me about it.

Spontaneously a friend to me with a strong red wine to the side. Late in the night, I got a text from the woman in which she apologized for the behavior of her husband. The obviously had overwhelmed not only Blood loss but also the tap of a message. The young mother, the behavior of her husband was uncomfortable. Understandable.

But I had explained because the Blood draw enough? The next day, I came back to the house to visit. On the day before so hostile man gave me a huge bouquet of flowers and a fresh coffee. We talked about the Situation and his reaction. Now he looked the necessary blood to be interested in abstraction and brought the blood himself into the lab.

During the following visits, we joked it is always the very first Moment. Really funny but it was not then. The next child was born two years later, we were set much better to each other. And still today, I get a Post with photos of the family. I am very pleased and have to smile every Time.