Breastfeeding is the most Beautiful in the world? True sometimes, and sometimes not at all.
Breastfeeding is a Religion. The bookshelves sources of literature around the most Beautiful in the world.
Web pages, Facebook groups and Instagram Accounts full of breastfeeding women. There will be fights, insults, meant to be, educated and determined. The industry is responding to the Trend with products to assist this time and the Load is running. Born in a breastfeeding-friendly hospital.
In my training as a midwife, which began in 1986, I learned nothing about Breastfeeding, and had the time practice as well as no contact with mothers who ever wanted to breastfeed. This Generation of women were children of the ‘ 68, the sermons, the liberation of women. Part of that was that there was the bottle, and please note that every four hours, done. We are not to become all big?
It was silent in the time of something very alternative. The photos show in the first book on the subject by Hanna Lothrop, one of the first icons of lactation consultants. You see there are communities members are sitting in a self-colored bib and brace overalls, men with long beards, women with bare Breasts and satisfy kids of all ages.
There are no Silent Generation before us has shaped us in the family, as in the Nordic countries. Virtually everyone in the family can take the advice, as there always was satisfied, and every family has their own Tricks and tips.
Not infrequently, the old times are coming back to the changing table in the 21st century. Century, when the mother or mother-in-law of a young mom, I take care of, give the earlier words of wisdom for the Best. One of the most common comments is that you are spoiled for the Baby to Yes and, well, it’s always not enough.
In the family, there has never worked with Breastfeeding, and that you have to make of the young woman, but please also fix clear. A rare consequence of such Inputs in the puerperium, the so-called mother-in-law’s syndrome, in which the nursing mom when Crossing the border of the city of the mother-in-law gets a milk jam is.
On the other hand, the benefits of breastfeeding to be preached like the verses from the Bible. Yes, we know it all, and Yes, we get it. We believe the beautiful and relaxed mothers on web pages and on all channels, the inspired of luck with fresh geföhnten hair and smartly dressed in a stylish living room that Breastfeeding is the most Beautiful in the world. I can only say Yes, it is.
Now comes the But: but not for every woman. How not to work, women feel where it is and Fight, after a long and a lot of tears with the worst Conscience of the world at the end give up. The women are sitting weeping and broken on her couch in a messy apartment, in baggy trousers, without having taken a shower, and the famous parent node, to subdue the unwashed hair.
Yes, Breastfeeding is also an asshole can be a hole and a real one.
Henriette gave me this saying on the way given in my last home visit, in the eighth week after the Silent finally, and after many tears worked had. The saying is true in the dark abyss that is hidden for some Quiet. What I have this woman to be admired for their sake. Chapeau! He accompanied me ever since in my work and I’ll give you like women with on the way in which breast-feeding does not work that way.
I would like to see all the Mamas out there, Let alone that do not want to breastfeed or can, or, for whatever reason, choose not to. Support each other, encourage you, and stay close together, damn it. And no mommy is better than the other Mama. It is not there, the good or the bad Mamas.




